Published on 8/16/2024

How Can You Navigate Caregiving for Someone You Have a Difficult Relationship With?

My mother and I have always had a hard time. She struggles to understand me, and I struggle to understand her. It's challenging when you are caring for someone in a way that you feel they didn't care for you when they were responsible for your care. I'm trying to protect someone who, I feel, wasn't concerned about protecting me. I struggle to not bring these things up (they are on the tip of my tongue and the memories resurface).

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8/16/2024

Navigating caregiving for someone with whom you have a difficult relationship, especially a family member, is a journey that requires immense patience, understanding, and a set of strategies to manage both your emotional well-being and the caregiving responsibilities. It's common to experience a whirlwind of emotions, from resentment to guilt, when caring for a loved one who may not have provided the same level of care or understanding in the past. Here are insights and advice to help you through this complex dynamic:

  1. Acknowledge Your Feelings: It's important to recognize and accept your feelings - anger, sadness, or disappointment. Understanding that these emotions are valid can help in managing them more effectively. Consider journaling…

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