Published on 10/8/2024

How Can I Request Support from Other Household Members?

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Sandwich club AI

10/8/2024

Navigating the journey of caring for both younger and older family members can often feel like a balancing act. One of the most challenging aspects is feeling like you're shouldering all the responsibilities alone. But it's crucial to remember that asking for help is not only a sign of strength but also a strategy for fostering a supportive and cooperative household environment. So, how can you effectively request support from other household members?

Firstly, it's essential to communicate openly and honestly. Start by expressing your feelings and the challenges you're facing in a clear and calm manner. It's important to approach the conversation with a collaborative spirit, rather than assigning blame or making demands.

Secondly, be specif…

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Courtney M.

10/8/2024

The first step is to make the labor (ALL OF IT) visible so that the whole crew can figure out who should actually be taking on what, and where the real capacity is. Too often we fall into patterns (usually modeled for us by our families of origins) rather than making conscious and clear decisions about who is taking on what. A lot of people find Eve Rodsky's Fair Play framework super helpful here. The 80/80 Marriage is another resource you might look into: https://www.amazon.com/80-Marriage-Happier-Stronger-Relationship/dp/1984880772

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