Published on 8/28/2024

How Can I Help My Mom Accept a House Cleaner?

How can I help my mom (age 80) accept a house cleaner, when she doesn't trust anyone to come into her house OR trust anyone to clean it as well as she does...but she isn't able to clean the whole house anymore and needs help!

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8/28/2024

Finding a reliable house cleaner for an elderly parent who values their independence and has high standards can be a challenging task, especially when they are resistant to the idea. However, with a combination of understanding, patience, and the right approach, it's possible to help them accept the help they need. Here are strategies to consider:

  1. Start Small: Introduce the idea gradually. Begin with a discussion about the challenges of maintaining a clean home and how a little help could ease the burden. You might first suggest a trial period with a cleaning service to demonstrate the benefits.

  2. Focus on the Benefits: Emphasize how hiring a cleaner can improve safety by reducing the risk of falls and can provide them more time to enjoy …

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8/29/2024

I realize your question is about helping your mom feel comfortable with a cleaner. Is it possible for her to clean alongside the cleaner? This works well for a friend of mine who struggles with letting go of this work - it's still your mom cleaning, but it takes half the the time and might be a good way to transition into it.

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