Published on 4/15/2024

How Do I Approach the Conversation About Driving with My Dad?

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4/15/2024

Navigating the delicate conversation about when it may be time for an aging parent to stop driving is a challenge many of us face. It's a talk that involves not just safety concerns but also issues of independence and identity. Here are several strategies to consider when preparing for this important discussion:

  1. Start Early and Talk Often: Approach the subject gently and gradually. Introduce the idea in a non-confrontational manner, focusing on safety and the well-being of your dad and others.

  2. Empathize and Listen: Understand that driving is often linked to an individual’s sense of freedom and autonomy. Listen to your dad's concerns and feelings about the possibility of not driving.

  3. Focus on Safety: Emphasize the importance of safety …

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8/20/2024

My mother lost her license automatically when she was diagnosed with Alzheimer's. The state of California mandates that physicians notify the DMV when someone is diagnosed with dementia. They require the individual to retest for vision, written, and driving. Mom barely passed the vision, but failed the written, and refused to accept that she could not drive anymore. The stripping of independence is very hard for many seniors. Add dementia into the mix and it gets more complicated. Taking the keys or disabling the car can help temporarily. The authorities would not let us remove the car from her house because it would be considered "stolen property" and we risked being arrested? No lie. More awareness is needed across the board.

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