Published on 4/11/2024

How Can I Discuss Moving to a Facility with My Dad?

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4/11/2024

Discussing the possibility of moving to a care facility with a loved one, especially a parent, is a conversation that many of us may face. It's not just about logistics or care needs; it's deeply personal and can be emotionally charged. Navigating this conversation requires sensitivity, patience, and a lot of empathy. Here are some strategies to approach this delicate topic:

  • Start Early: Don't wait for a crisis to have this conversation. Begin discussing future care preferences and options early, making it an ongoing dialogue rather than a one-time discussion.
  • Focus on Their Needs and Autonomy: Emphasize that the conversation is about their well-being and maintaining their independence as much as possible. Frame the discussion around how a…

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4/24/2024

I'd be curious to know more about the situation of the person who asked to be able to offer more insights into the particular situation, but I really like Nazli's suggestion here around why starting early is helpful - they are empowered to make the choice when they are well enough. That was critical when we moved my grandpa out of his home. He was so deeply connected to the idea of his space, and we were able to recreate the feelings of connection to a new place because he was choosing and he was shaping how the transition happened. We also found small things that he loved from his home and connected them to his new home (e.g., window with a bird feeder to watch).

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